BLOGMAS DAY 2

     BLOGMAS Day 2! So exciting. The days until Christmas are winding down. I’ve been trying to contain my spirit, but today for me was like a flashback in a movie. It seemed like everything that was said just brought up a lot of memories. Some of them were good ones, like getting to travel with my friends and movie nights with my besties, and some of them were bad. From stupid decisions that I’ve made myself, or situations that I let myself be caught up in. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Whether it’s to teach you what not to do, or what you should do better, there is a lesson behind everything in life. And all day, I was trying to come up with a way to block those thoughts out of my mind. Finally, I realized that I can’t. There really isn’t anything that you can do to make something come out of your head. Once it’s in there, it’s in there. So, how can we deal with unwanted memories.
1.Accept that it actually happened.  2. Deal with it. We don’t have time machines, we can’t go back in time and change it
3. Decide whether you’re going to use that experience to help you or hurt you. To help you, recognize the warning signs. Know what to look out for next time. Hurt you, never allow yourself to be at fault for making a bad decision. 

This is basically what I had to do today. I hope it helps. 

~And that’s the way the cookie crumbles~

BLOGMAS DAY 1

Welcome to BLOGMAS! Basically, I’m just going to be posting a blog everyday in December excluding Sunday’s, just because I need a day to just relax, and gather up my thoughts for the following week. BLOGMAS isn’t something organized. I’ll just be posting whatever I feel like for that day. Enough with the intro, here’s my first BLOGMAS.

I was thinking today, about how everything has changed. I looked back and I know exactly where I was a year ago today, how I felt, and the reasons for my emotions. Looking back to 365 days ago, I realize all of the stupid decisions I made. The first one was regarding boys! Ugh! Oh The Horror! I realized that a lot of the crap that I went through was of no one else’s fault but my own. I choose to listen to that stupid little voice telling me, “Go ahead, talk to him, maybe he’s different.” NO! That’s a lie. One of the many lies that girls convince our selves of when we like a guy that we know we shouldn’t even try to talk to. I found myself in that situation, and what did I do? I choose to stay. I choose to listen to everything that he had to say. I choose to accept every insincere apology. STUPID, STUPID, GIRL! Now, how is this going to help you… I’m going to give to you the steps you should take to avoid this problem.
1. Identify the problem. 
As cliché as it may be, it isn’t as easy as it sounds. Many people, like me, chose to ignore that there is even a problem. Does that work in the end? NO!
2. Decide what to do with the problem.
Let’s say that you do identify the problem, you still have to choose whether or not you want to try and fix the problem.
3. Act on your decision. 
Now that you’ve made a decision, put it into action. Whatever it is follow through, because trust me in the end it works out.

That’s my little experience for today, I hope that it helps. Comment down below, tweet me, or email me and let me know if these tips are helpful.

~And that’s the way the cookie crumbles~

December's Excitement

GUYS!!!! IT'S DECEMBER!!! HMMM..... Less than 1 month left in 2013. I can't even believe that the year is almost over. That means that we have survived almost another year of trials, tribulations, and school! That means we're one year closer to being done! Finished with school, drama, and stupid people. GOSH! The fact that I'm a junior in high school makes me feel like I've lived a full life. From all of the things that have happened. I mean c'mon. From boy drama to breaking up friendships. I've had my fair share of mishaps. And I will be telling you guys all about them. So for everyday in December (excluding Sundays) I will be letting you guys into my personal life and telling you guys what I've been through, my choices and also different solution options. I've decided to call it "BLOGMAS"! So keep a look out for those. And also thank you to those who have been reading my blogs. I know I took a long hiatus but only because I had so much going on but now I have a handle on things so my blog posts will be  more frequent! Thanks for all of the support. Love you guys!! 

~And that's the way the cookie crumbles~